Oral sex tutorial

I really love performing oral sex on a woman. I can remember fantasizing about it long before I ever had a chance to try it.

I find a woman's pussy to be an almost magical and mysterious source of excitement and pleasure. It feels so good around my penis that sometimes I just want to go down there to try and unlock its mysteries! I love the anticipation of kissing my way down a woman's stomach. I love a woman's soft silky pubic hair, especially when it is neatly trimmed into an alluring triangle-seeming to point the way to go for pleasure! Sometimes I will wrap my arms around my wife and just rest my face on her pubic hair. It is comforting for some reason, being so near the life-giving power of a woman. I also like to gently rub my face against her, it is as if she is scent-marking me as hers.

I also am incredibly turned on by the way woman's pussy looks. I love a woman's outer lips, they seem to exude raw sexual power. I remember the first time I really saw a woman from behind, she was on her knees and had her face down on a pillow and was resting on her arms with her nice ass up in the air waiting for me to enter her from behind. Her outer lips were quite visible to me, as was her anus and vaginal opening, and the view turned me on like you wouldn't believe! I like how soft the lips are, I like to look at them, feel them with my fingers, kiss them, lick them, and finally pull them into my mouth and suck on them like a baby.

I also like to spread them to get to her inner lips. It is like looking through the petals of a soft, pink, sweet flower. I like running my tongue up her inner lips to find the hidden prize of her clitoris at the top. It makes me feel good that I know exactly where her clitoris is, and what type of gentle but steady licking rhythm will drive her crazy. I also love knowing that I can make a woman wet with excitement. The scent and taste is mild, pleasant, intoxicating. I really think women taste good, it is pure sex to taste a woman and any man who doesn't is really missing something. I do not hesitate to press my face into her, licking her wetness and letting my face get wet from her excitement.

I enjoy going down on a woman from many positions. The traditional with her lying on her back and me lying on my stomach between her legs is very nice. It is also fun to lift her legs resting over my shoulders as I eat her. I also like to push her knees up with her heels against her buttocks so she is more exposed to my explorations. I think the best position is this way, but with her on the edge of the bed and me sitting on the floor in front of her. I can see everything this way!

It is even better if she is sitting like this in a comfortable living room chair, heels against her buttocks and right on the edge of her chair. My wife and I tried this recently, and it was very erotic because I could stare into her eyes lovingly as I licked her. This is probably one of the only positions which enables the woman to see what is happening. It also makes it easy to insert a finger into her pussy as I'm eating her.

Another very erotic position is for me to lie on my back, and have her kneeling over me and slowly lower her pussy to my face. Having a woman "sit on my face" like this is amazing. She is smothering me with her pussy, and I forget about everything else in the world. I can look up at her breasts and face, I can see that I'm giving her so much pleasure that she can barely stay on top of me! I even like the feeling when she gets so aroused that her juices run down my face and neck, and when she comes she practically falls off of me!

I have also found it fun to begin kissing my wife's neck, kiss my way down her back to her buttocks, kiss and gently bite her buttocks and thighs, and try to get my tongue to her pussy from this angle! I sometimes put my arms around her waist and pull her up so she is sticking her ass in the air, and from this angle I can kiss and lick her pussy. I can't really make her come this way because I can't reach her clitoris, but it is still sexy.

Of course the other wonderful oral sex experience is 69. I really love this. Not being able to see anything but her sex really makes for a focused sexual experience! It has the same "smother me with your beautiful pussy" quality and having a woman sit on you, with the added benefit of feeling her warm body against mine and her face against my genitals or my hard cock in her mouth. She generally takes me out of her mouth well before she comes because it is too hard to concentrate on both giving and receiving! I like to reach my arms around her and firmly grasp her buttocks and separate them as I eat her. It is an amazing feeling to make her come this way, and it is often quicker than other methods because my tongue is naturally positioned against her clitoris.

Since she is resting on my face, I don't just lick her clitoral area, but I draw her lips and clit into my mouth and move my tongue against her. I love it when she comes and then collapses with her hot wet pussy right onto my chest. All I see is her sex, and the taste and scent that envelopes me is that of an aroused woman that I just made come!

Does he love receiving oral sex but is a bit shy or turned-off by returning the favor? Tell him he doesn't know what he's missing and suggest you try a few things together to enhance what may become one of his favorite sexual activities. Obviously, be spanking clean (no pun intended) and invite him into the shower to help. If his misgivings about oral sex are that he's afraid to end up with a mouthful of hair, a shaving experiment is in order.

Even if your guy loves pleasuring you, he'd still love to get a good look at the object of his desire. Use a moisturizing shaving gel and be sure to use moisturizing lotion afterwards. You can either go for the bald look or perhaps get creative and shave the area into a triangle or anything your imagination comes up with. The shower is probably the best place to shave, but you can also lie in bed on a towel while he (carefully) experiments with a razor, lots of shaving goop and a small tub of warm water for rinsing.

Is it your natural taste your guy may not have acquired a fondness for? Women do tend to taste differently at different times of the month and after having a baby and probably all things hormonal. But you can make sure you taste yummy with any number of flavoured lubricants, lotions or potions available at your local adult toy store. If you have a 'Pleasure Chest' where you live, you've probably already tried your hand at this -- and a lot of other fun things. So in this day of thirty-one or more flavours meant to sweeten the pot, taste is no longer a problem.

As you know, there's always whipped cream and chocolate sauce or marshmallow sauce, etc. But I can't stress this point strongly enough: NEVER, NEVER use the microwave to warm anything that will end up anywhere near his delicates. The microwave warms unevenly and you may miss a hot spot that will take him out of the game for weeks -- and you out of the picture forever. This is not an urban legend of some sort; I know someone who lost their boyfriend by nuking ice cream for only 15 seconds, about 5 seconds too long.

Could the problem be, perhaps, that Mr. Right isn't quite sure how to please you? Tell him to relax and just start by licking the alphabet on your clitoris. Depending on how that goes, he can do it again a couple of times, going a little faster each time. When he does finally find what unique series of tongue flicks that drives you to the brink, give him a lot of encouragement. Yes, yes, yes may be enough, but it could stimulate you both if you 'talk.' Or 'talk dirty.' If you are this intimate, you know by now what works!

One thing he can do is to stiffen his tongue and use it like a small penis to explore all the nooks and crannies he's not visited before. This will give his tongue a cramp if done too long, so be sure to let him know as soon as you do if nothing is to come of this maneuver.

An advanced move, once he is comfortable with and has learned to enjoy your natural smells and taste is for him to press his nose against your clitoris and, while still using pressure, move up and down and side to side. This will cause wonderful clitoral tickles and also your clitoris and pelvic area will be engorged with blood so that you will be able to climax easier during intercourse, an added bonus.

Now he's extremely turned on both by your excitement and what he's been doing to bring you that pleasure. It's his turn.

But, wait, you ask. What about that old standard position called sixty-nine. Well, that's another article. Obviously you can't be totally into giving your best while being driven to the brink yourself. Taking turns not only extends foreplay, causing a larger set of fireworks later on but also allows you to know your partner as intimately as you can. You will know what gives her pleasure as well as she herself does.

Now, if you like his natural smell and taste, you don't need anything else -- unless there's adult sex toys or lotions or potions that you like, too.

Welllllll, I have so much fun giving blow jobs. I start by licking your lips & kissing you softly. Then I kiss your neck & ear, trailing a line with my tongue down to your nipples. You love it when I kiss, lick & suck on your nipples, don't you? So I do just that, starting on the left then moving to the right. I nip it with my teeth & suck on it like i'm giving you a hickey & then lick it feather light.
All this gets you really hard & the precum starts to ooze. I LOVE the taste of precum. If you tell me there is precum for me I will drop your pants then & there to lick it up. So I lick the precum off the tip of your dick & savor it. Then I start teasing you by licking your shaft up & down & all over, but avoid the head. I lick under the ridge of the head, but do not take the head in my mouth. Then I lick all the way down to the base of your shaft & take your balls in my mouth, one at a time & suck on them softly. I take both in my mouth & teabag you. I'm willing to bet I get more precum as a reward. Right? So, of course, I have to lick up the precum.

Next I engulf you in your entirety into my mouth, deep-throating you all at once. I stay just like that, your whole shaft inside my mouth, tip at the back of my throat for a minute or so, just letting you feel the wetness & warmth of my mouth. You moan, I'm sure, as it is sheer ecstasy to be buried to the hilt in my mouth. I slowly start to lick the head while it is still in my mouth, ringing around the ridge, flickering at the pee hole. Then I start to move towards the top & suck gently until I let almost all of you out of my mouth. You like to watch, don't you? So I put on a little show for you. I slowly move your thick cock in & out of my mouth in long strokes, sucking softly & in the spots you like it best. I do this until I feel you growing bigger in my mouth. Then the teasing starts again. I don't let you cum at first. I build up the climax for you, making you beg for release.

I start to lick the head again, probing your pee hole with my tongue in a sensual way that really turns you on, licking your shaft, cupping your balls in my free hand. I take all of you in my mouth again & concentrate on the top of your dick. I move slowly at first then quicken the speed, using my hand at the base of your shaft. It is wet with all the saliva that has dripped down your cock & from my constant licking & sucking, making you good & wet. I start to move my hand up & down in pace with my mouth, giving you a hand job & blow job at the same time, exciting you even more.

You start to ooze cum & I ask if you want me to milk you dry or to let you blow your wad. You see, I am holding the base of your dick & have the control over this. If I continue to hold it firmly you will just ooze cum, but if I let it lose you can have a mind shattering orgasm. Some days I prolong the orgasm by milking you dry, slowly letting little bits of cum squirt over a few minutes, having your orgasm last up to five minutes & other days I make you cum so hard you sees stars.

This day I want to drink your cum so I let lose & you shoot your wad all at once. It is a jism shake for me!!! I love to tease you after you cum, too, licking & sucking on your sensitive head, making you jump in the bed & practically hit the ceiling until you beg me to stop. I give you a little break & then we start all over again.

So, that's my blow job technique, plus or minus some secrets I refuse to tell...you like?

What a man wants and what will pleasure his cock to get him to blast a big load of cum. The following is one way to please a man…the intimate act of fellatio. A woman must want to perform this for him, and not make it a chore. If you have an attitude like you have to do it, then just forget it, he will not enjoy the process and neither will you. It will take you much longer to get him to blow a load if you do this just to be doing it.

What I'm going to teach you today is a combination of a blowjob and handjob all at the same time. Both work well by themselves, but doing these techniques at the same time will give you, and him, the most amount of pleasure far better than each of you thought you could ever be able to do.

Get yourself and him in a comfortable position. With him completely naked and yourself at least topless. Have him sit in a chair, sitting on the edge and laying back a bit and you on your knees between his legs, this will allow you to get real close. You might want to grab a pillow also, it can help your knees not to get too sore. Puuhhleeze trim them nails as to not scrape, scratch, or cut into his cock...real mood crasher. You don't need to cut them off just make sure they're each smooth all around. Oh, and painted red which makes them sexy.

First, the most important part of this process is very good lubrication to start the balls rolling (he he). But once you get into your task you'll have all the lubricatant you need from his leaking so much precum you'll have more than you need. So, start off by using anything that will work and what's handy. You know what I'm sayin', if you don't know, then ask him cause he will for sure.

Now to begin, by using your hands and LIPS, rub his legs and thighs up and down not to forget the insides of the thighs which are very sensitve and does give great pleasure, keep doing this until you feel he is relaxed and ready to proceed. Gently touch his balls with your fingers, lifting them, weighing them, massaging them, rubbing your face all around on them. Pulling his sack gently down toward the floor, never out to you, remembering not to smash his balls, this will hurt bad. Pulling down will cause his forskin on his shaft to tighten up and pull his cock out towards you at the same time so you can lick, suck and tease the head. Use your other hand to run your fingertips up and down the shaft. If he is still soft, this will surely get him hard! I doubt his cock will be soft. Remember that his cock is not only above the balls, it is also below them as well. The shaft goes all the way to the anus. Rubbing and stroking firmly down there on that spot between his balls and anus a few times will get him going.

Now, making the "OK" sign with your thumb and index finger, don't worry if you can't touch your fingers together once you have them around his shaft, the point is, to be barely touching the shaft, start by stroking very slowly. Do not touch the head just yet until you do this for at least 20-30 strokes slowly all the way from the base of his shaft to just under the head. After that go to the head, using the same "OK" sign, stroke the underside of the crown in very short very quick strokes up and down rubbing the crown only and not touching the shaft. Again with 20-30 strokes.

After this point, still using the "OK" sign with your fingers, very gently rub the underside of the head and shaft in a back and forth motion (like a washing machine moves). Going with these techniques, varing the amoumt of time you use with each, and you should have his cock leaking alot of precum. From time to time stop everything and grab his shaft like you would grab a handle and squeeze it real firm but gentle, this should bring out a big drop precum to use however you please. Now once you have grasped his cock in a firm grip jerk it up and down a few times allowing his balls to move with your hand as not too stretch the skin too much causing pain.

Now sit up higher and bring your breasts up to rub your nipples all over his cock teasing each of your nipples at the same time while teasing his cock using some of those drops of precum to lubricate your nipples with. Turning him on is the point, right!!! So why not turn yourself on also. Take his cock by the base with your thumb and first two fingers and with your other hand hold one of your tits out, using his cock like a hammer to pound your nipples with like you would be driving in a nail 10-15 firm splaps will do (it will make his cock feel great not to mention your nipples). Mashing your tits onto his cock and thighs will be a big turn on for him also. Now put his cock between your tits, hold them together yourself, and rub his shaft with them, using the precum to lubricate with, squeezing them together firmly to form a warm soft pillow for his hard shaft to fit around. Remember not to cover your nipples with your fingers because men like to look at a nipple gettin hard, also he can pinch, pull, and twist'em to tease you too. A big turnon for guys is to watch a woman touch herself in a way that makes her enjoy the moment. After a little bit of this treatment make him take your breasts so he can work them up and down on his cock and you can concentrate on working the head with your mouth also using your hands on his balls.

At this point, you might want to begin the blowjob. Start by taking one of his balls in your mouth, kissing them, sucking them, feeling their heat. Be gentle, as they are tender. Doing the same to both, putting both in your mouth if you can. Taking your time, time should not be an issue here. NEVER NEVER use your teeth at all at any point, this is very important. He might be moving about a bit, or letting you know by grunting or groaning, of your doing a good job. When you are ready, run your tongue up his shaft and all around it, lightly but firmly, stopping to kiss him here and there. Pause, tell him how much you like to suck on his cock and want to make him cum, to feel it throb (by this point you should be into it as much as he is, you know what to say!) Move back down, stroking him, kissing his cock. Then, get very close to the head, and blow gently all over his cock and his balls and thighs. Slowly, lick the head, around and around, slipping your tongue over his slit across the "V" area. This is what will really will please his cock, so be careful and not overdue it. Stop, and run your tongue along the shaft while using your thumb, gently rub the head back and forth over that "V" spot just below his slit. Run your tongue to his balls, playing with them, pulling them down, sucking them into your mouth then kiss your way back to the head.

Now, not all cocks will be alike. This is where you have to decide what your pace is when you suck him. You can suck him fast and hard or slow and hard, let him calm down at some point, or you can take him to the end, but I would suggest that you take your time. Continue to lick and suck him, going up and down and all around. Do not feel like you have to take him all the way to the end. Take your time, whats the hurry? Go back to the "OK" technique. Run your hands all over his crotch area around to his ass and pull him into your mouth to let him know that you like what your doing for him. The longer you make this last for him, the more he will cum and the more intense it will be for the both of you.

At some point he will put his hands on your head, trying to fuck your face, let him. Soon he will be cumming. How fast, how hard and how much will depend on you. How do you know when he will cum? He'll be moving about, thrusting some, maybe making some noise. He may or may not tell you before he cums, ask him to tell you, cause you don't need any surprises. His balls will draw up some, and he will get harder, his cock will start throbbing really hard and there might be some advanced cum. His cock will throb real hard one or two times before it shoots out its load.

The intensity of his orgasm will be relative to your performance. When he cums take him as deep as you can, swallowing him down till your nose is mashed into his pubes, you must learn how to do this. Learning to deepthroat will get a man to do whatever you want, whenever you want (I mean WHATEVER YOU WANT). Relaxing the throat to avoid gagging is a trick you will have to learn from practice, practice, practice. I doubt you will have any trouble letting you practice. When he is done shooting cum down your throat be gentle with his cock, as it will be very tender. Light, soft sucking and licking on the head and all around the head will have his whole body jerking giving him spasms throughout his body long after he has cum, you will feel those spasms right through his cock. With the right amount of pleasure at this time his cock just might set him blasting into another orgasm.

Another way to let him cum, is shooting it on his stomach, with a towel across it (or not). Start by stroking him really, really fast at that point you know he is about to cum, and not before. At that very moment you feel his cock grow, it gets real hard and starts throbbing, absolutely stop stroking it. Let him cum, but never let go, just firmly hold it and feel his cock pulsate in your hand. Once he has had about 4-5 hard throbs (that is shooting wads) start to slowly stroke his cock when he's aproaching near the end. Rubbing his cum up and down the shaft, gently squeezing him letting him come back down to earth till he has finished. Once his cock has stopped throbbing, STOP STROKING YES STOP, just GENTLY rub him, the sensation will be very extreme around and underneath the head. Gently, gently, gently rubbing the head on the underside of the crown with your fingers or lips, much preference from your lips than from your fingers. Don't forget about pulling his balls down the whole time during this (still, not smashing them). When your done, hopefully, if you've done it all correctly you will have a big mess to clean up, or lick up.

One trick that you might want to try is that spot just under his balls and above the anus, remember that spot... well listen up... When you feel that his cock is going to start to explode, let go of his balls and press real firm just above the anus with the first three fingers, but without using your fingernails. Once you feel his cock starting to shoot, press that spot firm until his cock throbs twice and only twice, more than that could cause pain for him. Then release the pressure right before you feel the third pulse and stand back cause its gonna blow and blow hard.

Now all you women out there get to work on some hard COCK near you. You do know, a hard cock is a terrible thing to waste...LOL

Are you good at oral sex? This aspect of love making is very important in the sense of sustaining a good relationship with your lover. Any woman can put a cock in her mouth, but if she cannot do it in such a way that her lover is pleased, then what is the point?

When performing oral sex, you must always maintain eye contact. This is very sensual and your lover will be very turned on. Don't just look at him, make love to him with your eyes. This is very important and many women fail to do this. Ladies, I promise you, it will be as sexy to you as it is to him. Also, allow his to stand while you do this. That is very sexy having your strong lover stand there while you suck his cock...men love this.

Take your lover's cock firmly into your hand. While you are sucking it, stroking his cock at the same time is very arousing. Moving your head up and down, while your lips are firmly wrapped around his hard cock is pure ecstasy, but if you also stroke it as firmly as you are sucking it...he'll do anything you say. :)~

Licking your lover's cock is as equally wonderful. Take your tongue, and from the very tip of his cock, run it down the length of his shaft, then back up again. Doing this over and over, while stroking and looking at him will drive him crazy.

Now, one thing many women tend to overlook are their lover's balls. Ladies, these are just in need of loving as his cock is. Do not be afraid to put them in your mouth. They are very delicious! While you are firmly stroking your lover's cock, take one of his balls in your mouth. Let it roll around, playing with it with your tongue. Do the other as well, you don't want it to feel left out. This will send him to another realm of ecstasy, I promise you that.

The clincher for performing oral sex is deep throating. Ladies, men love this and it is a great thing to feel. Imagine, your lover's big, hard cock jammed into the back of your throat. That is bliss ladies, pure bliss. To deep throat him, relax your neck muscles. Tensing up will not work. Let his cock glide all the way into your mouth. Once you have it completely in, make fast, sucking motions using your tongue and cheeks. Now, don't forget to massage his balls while you are doing this. If you can achieve this, he will be your playful little pet.

Finally, I realize that for some women this is a big turn off. But, in order to completely perform wonderful oral sex on your lover, you must allow him to cum in your mouth and you must swallow. The first couple of times it may seem very odd. But, I promise, the more you do it, the better it gets. After all, isn't that the prize for all of your hard work? But of course it is.

The ultimate goal of giving great oral sex is the fact that when you are done with him, it will be your turn. Don't be afraid to tell him what you want. If you want him to bite your clit, tell him. If you want him to probe you with his tongue, tell him. He can't read your mind. Many women tend to stay quiet, thus getting frustrated when the act is over. Now, who's fault is that? Ladies, if you want a fabulous orgasm, never hesitate in what it is that turns you on. Good luck and here's a toast to many wonderful nights of glorious sex!

I'm serious, guys. Please get your significant other to read this; it is a surprise for you and your reading it will only ruin the sensuous gift in store for you!

Hey, guys, stop now if you're still reading!

Okay, are we alone? Here's what you are going to do to drive your man into ecstasy:

First, the preparations. Rummage through your hair scrunchies and find the one that is rather soft and a bit long or with a lot of 'give' or buy a new one just for this. Leather ones are probably out as are any ones with clips or any metal edges. Ouch!!

Next, find a stocking or one half pair of pantyhose or a scarf to use as a blindfold. It needn't be sexy looking; it's only to make the pleasure more intense and also to keep him from trying to figure out what the heck you're doing down there to his delicate privates!

Tasty massage oils are optional. If you really don't like fellatio that much, a tasty lubricant can definitely make this more palatable for you. You may even learn to enjoy it and you know that would be such a turn-on for him.

Get ready for bed. Put on the blindfold for him and lead him to the bed. Help him get in and get comfy.

He'll probably keep asking what you're doing; just keep reassuring him that you have a pleasant surprise for him.

Next, take a soft washcloth and, using warm water placed in a small container. Wet the towel and wring out completely. Gently pick up his penis and stroke toward his body and underneath his testicles. If he protests that he just had a shower, tell him you're just wiping away any loose hairs because you want nothing in the way.

Set the water aside.

Take the scrunchie and ever-so-gently wrap it, starting with placing it VERY loosely around the testicles and then back up to the top of the shaft, looping the scrunchie until it is fastened securely around his testicles and his, by now, hardening penis.

This would be the time to put some drops of flavoured lubricant; let two or three drops trickle from the top to the bottom and underneath.

Taking his penis into your mouth, kiss, lick and suck very, very gently, paying attention to his testicles also. The more blood that gets engorged and is somewhat bound by your hair accessory (you'll never look at that thing the same again, will you?

Keep alternating the movements, stopping to spend extra time on the places that you know are super-sensitive for him. Or ask--not while you're doing this, but during a sex talk at a later date.

Finally, don't forget to push up on the perineum; the feeling is the equivalent of our G-spot. To find it, put your hand behind his shaft and testicles. There will be an area that runs from there back to his anus.

The spot you are looking for is midway between the two areas described. Don't be worried you'll not find it or you won't do it right. Practice makes perfect---and, if he can still talk, he might tell you---or show you.

So you've gotten to the middle part. Now press up and back firmly. No response? Try varying the area a bit. It's really not that big an area so it's pretty much a 'you can't miss it thing.' Take note of where he groans with pleasure---and with pain and, of course, avoid the latter....unless.....

Massaging the perineum is intense even during regular sex; his orgasms will be more intense just as ours are when the clitoris is stroked in just the right way.

Tell yourself beforehand, that he may not be able to prevent ejaculation this way, so don't be disappointed if there is no penetration that time, depending on his rebound time.

If you have to have penetration, and he may agree, stop when you know you need to stop. You probably know when this is better than he does. If this is the third date, you probably won't know---and shame on you for 'doing it' too soon. Yes, the three date rule has been moved ahead to allow more time to get to know each other.

Afterwards, untie the blindfold and let him compliment you, your taste, your sexiness, your everything. Cuddle and fall asleep in each other's arms.

And keep the blindfold and scrunchie handy!