Cunnilingus tutorial

No two women are alike when it comes to how they enjoy having their pussy licked, but there are some things you can try to make the experience more pleasurable for her. Obviously, you will need to experiment to discover how your lover likes to be touched, caressed, and licked. Listen to her sounds, watch her body language, and don’t be afraid to ask her if she likes what you are doing. You can also ask her what she wants you to do.

• Start slowly: Very few women will want you to go straight for her clit unless she’s already aroused before you start getting intimate. Before you head downtown, spend some time kissing and stroking her. Play with her breasts, using your hands and your mouth. Once you arrive at her pussy, don’t immediately dive in. Build up the tension a bit. Some women enjoy a light massage of the mons. Caress her inner thighs. Kiss around her mound and tease her outer lips. Get her to the point where she’s ready to beg before you spread the outer lips and give her the touch she’s craving.
  
  
• Tongue movements: There are a variety of ways to use your tongue to bring your partner pleasure. It’s a good thing to remember that the clit is extremely sensitive for most women and needs to be very aroused before you can even think about getting rough with it. If you start out that way, you are likely going to make your lover want to jump out of the bed and possibly kill her mood. There’s no rule that says you only have to lick her clit.
  
  Lick around the inner lips and the entrance. More than likely, she’s going to want you to spend most of your time licking the clit, but you don’t have to spend the entire time there. Some guys swear by licking the alphabet. If you have enough concentration for that, then by all means, go for it. The important thing to remember is you need to make steady flowing strokes. It’s okay if you aren’t licking the exact same way the whole time, but you shouldn’t change it up too much or become erratic with the movements. When she’s ready for you to be rougher and lick harder, she’ll let you know. Some women enjoy having their clit or lips sucked on. Experiment and see what your lover likes.
  
  
• Fingers: Just because it’s called oral sex does not mean that you can’t use your fingers. Many women enjoy being finger fucked while their clit is being licked. If you are going to thrust your fingers inside her pussy, make sure your nails are smooth and there aren’t any rough edges. You could easily cut her sensitive tissue. Don’t shove your finger inside the moment you begin licking her.
  
  Ease into it. Make sure she’s aroused and lubricated first. Go slow and her sounds and movements will let you know when you can thrust deeper and even add a second or more fingers. An alternative to using fingers would be a dildo or vibrator. These allow her to feel as though she’s being penetrated by something as large as a cock and have her clit licked at the same time. It’s a very delicious sensation.
  
  
• G-spot: Yes, it does exist. The reaction you may get from playing with a woman’s g-spot will vary from woman to woman. Some will get highly excited and have explosive (and even very wet) orgasms. Others may not have such an intense reaction but will still enjoy the extra stimulation. If you put your finger inside palm up, curl it a bit and feel for a bumpy rough spot on the top wall of her pussy. It may seem spongier than the surrounding tissue.
  
  As she gets more aroused, the bumpiness will become more pronounced. You can either rub in a circular motion or press on it rhythmically. The more aroused she becomes, the harder you can manipulate it. If you are doing it correctly, she will get the sensation that she needs to pee. Just ignore her, the feeling will pass as you continue to play with the g-spot. Some women can cum numerous times from g-spot stimulation. For others, it may speed up the time it takes them to cum from oral.
  
  
• Anal: Yes, you read it correctly. Anal play during oral sex can feel absolutely fantastic. Make sure you have some lube handy if you wish to play with her ass while you are licking her pussy. Even if you are only going to stroke around her anus, you still need to use lube because the area is easily irritated. Anal play can be an exciting addition to oral. The same rule applies here for finger thrusting. Make sure your nails are smooth and you don’t have any rough areas of skin. A thin dildo can also be used.
  

Oral sex is a wonderful addition to a couple’s sexual relationship. If you pay attention to how your partner reacts, you can bring her much pleasure and have her coming back for more.